Let's get our lives together in 2021

Hi it’s been a while but I'm so excited for this year. 2020 was so rough for us all, on a global scale as well as for a lot of us on personal levels. Regardless of what happened, I want to let you know that I'm so proud of you for making it this far! You've lived through an incredibly difficult year, and yet here you are, strong as ever💕❤️

Let's make 2021 our b*tch

I'd like to share with you a few of my resolutions. Granted, you can make resolutions at any time of the year, but what I like about New Year's is that feeling of a fresh start:

1. TREAT MYSELF WITH RESPECT & ALWAYS DO YOUR BEST
Self-deprecating jokes are getting old, honestly. First off, the more you say them, the more you end up reinforcing to yourself that you are a certain way. If you keep joking about how you're a piece of trash then eventually you start to believe it. It's time to change our mindsets in 2021. Under any circumstance, always do your best, no more and no less. But keep in mind that your best is never going to be the same from one moment to the next. Everything is alive and changing all the time, so your best will sometimes be high quality, and other times it will not be as good. But if you do less than your best, you subject yourself to frustrations, self-judgment, guilt, and regrets.

If you always do your best there is no way you can judge yourself.

2.Practice gratitude on a daily basis

GRATITUDE IS SO POWERFUL YOU GUYS. Once you start living with a deep sense of gratitude, no matter how difficult the day has been, you'll find that the quality of your life improves. Also, if you're grateful, you'll find that your mind is more at peace with how your life is going, making it much easier to manifest all your desires into your life.

3. DON’T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY!

Whatever happens around you, don’t take it personally. Using an earlier example, if I see you on the street and I say, “Hey, you are so stupid,” without knowing you, it’s not about you; it’s about me. If you take it personally, then perhaps you believe you are stupid. Maybe you think to yourself, “How does he know? Is she clairvoyant, or can everybody see how stupid I am? You take it personally because you agree with whatever was said. As soon as you agree, the poison goes through you, and you are trapped in the dream of hell.They can hook you easily with one little opinion and feed you whatever poison they want, and because you take it personally, you eat it up. You eat all their emotional garbage, and now it becomes your garbage.

4.Connect with the universe and myself on a spiritual level

I'm currently reading a book that's been opening my eyes and changing the way I see and understand life. It's made me realize so much about how literally my own mind has created certain experiences in my life. Once I finish the book I'll probably write an article about it.

5. Let go

If you are not aware that your mind is full of wounds and emotional poison, you cannot begin to clean and heal the wounds and you will continue to suffer. There is no reason to suffer but our problems make us grow, so stop saying “ Ugh why me, why does this always happen to me”.

For example, the little girl who was told not to sing is now twenty years old and she still does not sing. One way she can overcome the belief that her voice is ugly is to say, “Okay, I will try to sing, even if I do sing badly.” Then she can pretend that someone is clapping and telling her, “Oh! That was beautiful.” This may break the agreement a teeny, tiny bit, but it will still be there. However, now she has a little more power and courage to try again and again until finally she breaks the agreement.

That’s one way out of the dream of hell. But for every agreement you break that makes you suffer, you will need to replace it with a new agreement that makes you happy. This will keep the old agreement from coming back.

Okay, so you made some resolutions — now what?

t's one thing to make a million resolutions, but it's another to follow through with them. The number one reason why people end up "failing" is that they don't make their resolutions specific enough in the very first place. If you just tell yourself, "I want to lose weight," — that's not enough for you to stir up some kind of action. Also, that kind of resolution has a bit of a toxic connotation, because you're saying that you want to lose weight when the priority should just be on being healthy instead of the number on the scale. Re-phrase the way you word your resolutions to make them more positive and create concrete and specific steps to achieve your goals.

Here are some quotes for you to help you through 2021

I love you thanks for reading.